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Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Friday, February 20, 2009
The Cloisters Offers Relief
The recent decline in the economy has taken a toll on many but there are still glimmers of hope shining through. Don't have enough money for the caterer right now? Thinking of postponing that summer wedding for next spring? Well the ever popular wedding venue the Cloisters (Baltimore County, MD) has put together a dazziling package deal to help brides and grooms continue with their plans amidst the struggling economy.
Check out their recent posting courtesy of Baltimore Office of Promotion & The Arts.
THE CLOISTERS OFFERS ELOPEMENT PACKAGE
Planning a wedding in tough economic times has just gotten a lot easier. The Cloisters offers an inexpensive elopement package in a beautiful castle and wooded setting.
http://www.cloisterscastle.com/
Check out their recent posting courtesy of Baltimore Office of Promotion & The Arts.
THE CLOISTERS OFFERS ELOPEMENT PACKAGE
Planning a wedding in tough economic times has just gotten a lot easier. The Cloisters offers an inexpensive elopement package in a beautiful castle and wooded setting.
http://www.cloisterscastle.com/
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Pre-Marital Fritz
Recently, people have asked about suggestions for premarital counseling. I know that sometimes we can get so wound up in the hoopla of planning our one special day that we forget to focus on the marriage and trust me great marriages don't just fall out of the sky. The commitment and time that it takes requires a lot of hard work.
Of course, when one decides to get married they think about forever. "I will be with this person forever." "I will wake up every morning next to this person forever." "I will have to deal with this person leaving a Hansel and Gretel trail of their socks all over the bedroom floor and leaving the dishes in the sink...forever." ;)
Being committed to one person for the rest of your life is a challenge. It is a GOOD challenge but it is a challenge. This is because you are two totally different people and personalities under one roof. No matter how much you may have in common and no matter how great you think your relationship may be there is always room for learning!
Most times your church or officiant may have a premarital program that you can enroll in.
Here are a few helpful websites, counselors and books that serve as excellent tools.
Here are a few helpful websites, counselors and books that serve as excellent tools.
Website:
This website is one of my favorites! My friend and I visit often for helpful tips, articles, seminars and to improve our relationships with our husbands. I highly recommend this site.
Family Life
Offers conferences, seminars, resources and tools for healthy relationships and marriages.
Counselors:
If you live in the DC Metro Area, here are a few counselors that can help you with your premarital counseling sessions.
Joseph W James, Ph.D.
Washingon D.C. Area Psychologist
4400 East West HIghway
Suite 712
Bethesda, MD 20814
301.657.1144
Christine Alvarez, M.A.
16010 Annapolis Road
Bowie, MD 20715
Phone: 301-262-2270
Dr. Stephanie
Chrysalis for Families
14440 Cherry Lane Court
Suite 218
Laurel, MD 20707
Books:
And last but not least, some great reading materials.
Making Love Last Forever
by Gary Smalley
A Handbook for Engaged Couples: A Communication Tool for Those About to Be Married
by Alice Fryling and Robert Fryling
Before You Say "I Do": A Marriage Preparation Manual for Couples
by H. Norman Wright and Wes Roberts
Good luck and hope this helps!
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Selecting a Date for Your Wedding
The date that you choose for your wedding can set the tone for the type of wedding you will have and make a difference in your wedding budget. There are many differences in prices when deciding on the time of year that you want to get married. For instance, if you decide to get married during "peak wedding season" then you will be paying a higher price for your venue.Do you want to get married during a time when it will be more expensive or would you rather marry when the prices are much lower?
Peak wedding months are May through September and the prices for most venues are often elevated during these times. If you are looking to save a little then this is one factor that you may want to consider when choosing the perfect wedding date. Think about it this way, another perk to staying away from "peak wedding season" is that you will not have to compete with other friends and family members that may to want have their weddings on the same day.
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
What to do before you "I DO"
Now that you have said yes, here comes the stress! Or maybe not. Here are some helpful tips for newly engaged couples.
1. Get Organized
This is something that many couples fail to start with. Getting organized is Step #1.
(After taking sometime to enjoy being engaged of course but not too much time!)
Set a date, decide how many guests you will invite, set a budget, pick a venue and start moving forward. There is so much to do that there will be times when you will just want to run to the nearest Justice of the Peace. Not to worry, everything will be fine - keep your planning stress-free by getting organized. Whether you decide that you are not getting married for 11 months or if you decide that your wedding is going to be in 3 weeks, time is of the essence. So once you have decided that you will soon be saying "I DO" figure out "HOW TO".
2. Get Glamorous
Yes, that right brides! Look for that one in a million, "I look gorgeous and I don't want to take it off" dress. Start your search by looking for gowns that are flattering to your figure and that express your personality and style. You will want to browse the internet, look through magazines and set up a few appointments to go to a couple boutiques to try them on.
(Helpful Tip: It may be a good idea to only take a couple close friends or your mom as you will want someone that will give you their honest opinion.)
Remember that this day is about you and you want to feel comfortable in what you are wearing while looking absolutely stunning at the same time. Also, try a dress that you maybe wouldn't necessarily pick off the rack, it just may be the one or it may help you make your decision. Have fun, and trust me you will know when it's the ONE!
3. Get In Tune with your Vision
Maybe you have known all your life that you wanted to get married in a castle carrying pink roses being driven away in a horse drawn carriage. Or maybe you just know what you like and haven't really thought about what you want. Either way, sit down and talk with your future hubby and outline what is most important to each of you. Is it really important to you have your wedding ceremony in a church? Does your significant other really want to have a live band and the reception? Are photographs really important to the both of you? This will help you when creating your budget and also in determining the design elements for your special day. You will want a day that expresses your unique individuality as well as your oneness as a couple. Talk to each other, decide what is most important go from there.
4. GUEST LIST!!
Will your wedding be large, small or somewhere in between? Decide how many guests you will invite to share in your special day and witness your upcoming nuptials. This is key when researching venues for your ceremony and reception. You will want a space that can accommodate your guest comfortably and that fits your vision and style. So get a pen and paper start jotting down those names that you don't want to forget. Check out the guest list manager on The Knot.
**Brides and Grooms BEWARE: this is the number one reason that couples argue during the wedding planning process...it's practically normal. Almost every couple will have a little tussle or a heavy weight battle over who and who not to invite. "And this too shall pass."**
5. Get A Venue
Securing a venue should also be one of your top priorities once you are engaged. Depending on the time of year that you want to get married and how high in demand your selected venue is will determine just how much time you have to book it. Do some research. Find out if the space can accommodate the number of guests that will be attending. Check availability. Set up an initial walk-thru for you and your significant other. Ask for a proposal, suggested caterers list, guidelines and restrictions, payment schedule, refund policies, etc. You will want to know this before putting down a deposit and signing the contract. Be thorough when talking with the coordinator at the site. Once you have decided, BOOK IT! Put down your deposit to secure your wedding date and you're all set.
You've officially started the wedding planning process. Whew! Now that you've accomplished that you will see that everything else will just fall into place. Remember the first step to stress-free wedding planning is: GET ORGANIZED! Happy Planning...
Need help planning your special day? Weddings By K offers unique personalized wedding services for an unforgettable event.
1. Get Organized
This is something that many couples fail to start with. Getting organized is Step #1.
(After taking sometime to enjoy being engaged of course but not too much time!)
Set a date, decide how many guests you will invite, set a budget, pick a venue and start moving forward. There is so much to do that there will be times when you will just want to run to the nearest Justice of the Peace. Not to worry, everything will be fine - keep your planning stress-free by getting organized. Whether you decide that you are not getting married for 11 months or if you decide that your wedding is going to be in 3 weeks, time is of the essence. So once you have decided that you will soon be saying "I DO" figure out "HOW TO".
2. Get Glamorous
Yes, that right brides! Look for that one in a million, "I look gorgeous and I don't want to take it off" dress. Start your search by looking for gowns that are flattering to your figure and that express your personality and style. You will want to browse the internet, look through magazines and set up a few appointments to go to a couple boutiques to try them on.
(Helpful Tip: It may be a good idea to only take a couple close friends or your mom as you will want someone that will give you their honest opinion.)
Remember that this day is about you and you want to feel comfortable in what you are wearing while looking absolutely stunning at the same time. Also, try a dress that you maybe wouldn't necessarily pick off the rack, it just may be the one or it may help you make your decision. Have fun, and trust me you will know when it's the ONE!
3. Get In Tune with your Vision
Maybe you have known all your life that you wanted to get married in a castle carrying pink roses being driven away in a horse drawn carriage. Or maybe you just know what you like and haven't really thought about what you want. Either way, sit down and talk with your future hubby and outline what is most important to each of you. Is it really important to you have your wedding ceremony in a church? Does your significant other really want to have a live band and the reception? Are photographs really important to the both of you? This will help you when creating your budget and also in determining the design elements for your special day. You will want a day that expresses your unique individuality as well as your oneness as a couple. Talk to each other, decide what is most important go from there.
4. GUEST LIST!!
Will your wedding be large, small or somewhere in between? Decide how many guests you will invite to share in your special day and witness your upcoming nuptials. This is key when researching venues for your ceremony and reception. You will want a space that can accommodate your guest comfortably and that fits your vision and style. So get a pen and paper start jotting down those names that you don't want to forget. Check out the guest list manager on The Knot.
**Brides and Grooms BEWARE: this is the number one reason that couples argue during the wedding planning process...it's practically normal. Almost every couple will have a little tussle or a heavy weight battle over who and who not to invite. "And this too shall pass."**
5. Get A Venue
Securing a venue should also be one of your top priorities once you are engaged. Depending on the time of year that you want to get married and how high in demand your selected venue is will determine just how much time you have to book it. Do some research. Find out if the space can accommodate the number of guests that will be attending. Check availability. Set up an initial walk-thru for you and your significant other. Ask for a proposal, suggested caterers list, guidelines and restrictions, payment schedule, refund policies, etc. You will want to know this before putting down a deposit and signing the contract. Be thorough when talking with the coordinator at the site. Once you have decided, BOOK IT! Put down your deposit to secure your wedding date and you're all set.
You've officially started the wedding planning process. Whew! Now that you've accomplished that you will see that everything else will just fall into place. Remember the first step to stress-free wedding planning is: GET ORGANIZED! Happy Planning...
Need help planning your special day? Weddings By K offers unique personalized wedding services for an unforgettable event.
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