Bridal Wars - Choosing your Bridal Party

This is something that everyone seems to have planned out at the exact moment that they are engaged. Not so fast. These people are not just a set of nice looking people that will be standing next to you on your special day, these are people that you know are your true friends and that will be there to support you in the years to come. It's not always an easy task. Curly Sue from kindergarten will think, "Oh I know I'm in the bridal party!" and Handsome Joe will say, "Of course I'm the best man right?!?!" Although this may seem like a light task, it is actually something that you will want to put a lot of thought into before asking and making your final decisions.

Being a bridesmaid or groomsmen is more than just standing at the altar on the day of the wedding. It's about friendship, support and a mutual understanding between you and the couple that you will be there. Not just on that day but in the years to come. Don't get me wrong...your job is also to make sure that the bride and groom stay sane throughout the entire planning process but it is not as simple a task as most people make it out to be.

With some bridal parties there is definitely tons of drama and that is why it is important to re-evaluate who exactly is worthy of standing next to you on one of the most important days of your life.

Think about it...it could save you lots of stress in the long run!

Happy Planning!